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Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to?

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Question - (17 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to? Were they a virgin? Were you a giving oral virgin? Were you a recievimg oral virgin?

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (18 July 2010):

I was 22 when I met the woman I would marry. She was the same age. We were both virgins - neither one of us had done more than passionate, open-mouth kissing. (And she kissed rather passionately on our first date . . . but that's a story you can find among my other posts.)

About 5 - 6 months later (3 or 4 months into our engagement) we started pleasuring each other with oral sex, both giving and receiving. She had her first orgasm with her thighs wrapped around my ears - an event that is almost as significant to me as our first intercourse.

We exchanged virginity (I took hers, and she got mine in return) on our wedding night, about a year after we met. We're a month short of our 36th wedding anniversary.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (17 July 2010):

Illithid agony auntWhile I'm not married, I have been engaged. And I am still a virgin (by choice, waiting for that wedding night). But am I an oral virgin? Nope.

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A male reader, hindsight United States +, writes (17 July 2010):

No, No, No, No

Both my wife and I had both been with other people before each other, we both knew about it and neither has a problem with it.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (17 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntNope,

Nope,

Nope, and

Nope.

Didn't marry til I was 28.

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