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writes:I am 18 and have a crush on a girl a year younger than me at work. We are both part timers at a restaurant, and our boss owns the bar next door. There was a party in the bar one night and being a dishwasher in the restaurant, I was not needed, but stayed to have some drinks out of uniform. My crush worked on the bar with some of the others, pouring me loads of half pints. Being a bit of a lightweight [and having a cold anyway], I fell really ill and had to go home after a couple of hours. Funny thing was, I was sitting outside gathering some fresh air just before leaving, and my crush came up behind and stroked my hair. We held hands for a moment before someone came out and offered to drive me back.Was this just her taking care of me or would a 'platonic' friend not do this? In other words, did it mean anything?Thanks :D
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 February 2012):
 Totally understand, it does sound like she might like you hear, I honestly think you should make your move and ask her would she like to go for a drink some time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA few things. She is not usually flirty with boys and has not had boyfriends recently. We have been seeing each other at work twice a week for about five months, and once went on a night out [and to be blunt, got friendly, kissing], but this may have been alcohol.
I was really woozy from drink and realized she was stroking my hair, and grabbed her hand probably because the drink had made me a little confident. After about five or ten seconds someone came out so we let go. She texted to see if I was ok and I replied the next day [was asleep]. Yep I'm analysing but just filling everyone in :)
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (20 February 2012):
It's a tough one to call, because she might just be the caring person and wanted to make sure you where okay. I guess you are never really going to know, so why not just ask her out some time, its the only way you will find out, good luck!
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