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We're finished and all I want back is the picture I gave him...

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Question - (15 March 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 March 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

Hi..feel in love with this great guy..We met, and he had to leave for work overseas. He's married, no kids. He did promise he was gonna come back but never did, but still says he loves me.

Anyway, I have broken up with him, because he hurt me so bad. It's hard but I know I don't deserve a partner who loves me for the wrong reasons.

I sent him this lovely pic of mine for his b/day 3 yrs ago. I want it back, reason being, this pic of mine showed how deep my love was for him.

It's pure as ( mind you, I never slept with any guy except him ) even after he left. Had many opportunities to do so but I didn't want to betray him.

I dont want any of the things I sent to him but that pic. Asked him many times, but he doesn't want to.

What should I do?? He promised, made me wait for four years.. It's hard to forget but I need to move on..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2005):

Move on.

Be strong. Don't contact him.... don't you dare!!

See if he contacts you. Play his game. why has he still got the pic?

Sounds like he is enjoying controlling you. Get off his roundabout while he isn't looking...

move on, be strong.

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A reader, dolly, writes (15 March 2005):

Tell him how you feel, I'm sure he'll understand. Why don't you send him a colourful picture?

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