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We're both shy, how do I proceed?

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Question - (10 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm really shy and I don't know how to show my shy crush that I like him. Please help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011):

Hey:) i had the exact problem except my guys are usually the ones who are shy so i always make the first move. Its easy for me now to make a move. All i do is go up, talk to them and act normal about it. Dont be scared because there's absolutely nothing to be afraid of. Be calm and have fun and talk to him more. You can also spend more time with him and eventually you'll feel better about making a move..trust me:) Good luck!

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A male reader, uncle bob Canada +, writes (11 March 2011):

uncle bob agony auntI'm surprised you haven't thought of this already.

Turn the tables for a second. Let's say, he has a crush on you. What do you think are the kinds of things he might do, to let you know, he has a crush on you? What are the things you would like to see? How about, if whenever he looked at you, he looked in your eyes and gave you a warm smile. What if he where to say, "Hey,I really like what your wearing". Or he asks you how school was today, and shows a genuine interest in you and what's happening in your life?

I think you can see where I'm going with this.

Now go try some of these things and a few others of your own on him. Just go slow, and try not to look overeager.

I guarantee, you try these simple things and he'll get the message.

I just hope you can put up with all the "ribbing" your going to get from your friends!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011):

Hey hun. What I would do is just start talking to him more often. You're still young, so don't go too far!

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A male reader, Jjang19 Canada +, writes (11 March 2011):

Ask him out? Easy as that... Nothing will happen unless you make something happen.

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