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We're both confused - what do we do?

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Question - (11 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, *ud girl 1 writes:

My boyfriend of over a year totally just dropped off the face of the earth, he does not return any of my phone calls or texts. He has depression issues where he has done this for a few days or so, this is the longest i am really worried or has he just moved on the last time i talked to him (last week) he said he lost his job and house i asked if he didn't want to talk to me anymore and he said he was confused and needed time what gives i am confused and don't know what to do

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A female reader, bud girl 1 United States +, writes (12 December 2007):

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k well i went over to his house today and got my stuff. he was the normal guy that i knew before. SO i asked him what the deal was and he said he did not hate me .and that he just didn't want to talk to anyone right now because he was depressed. I responded that i will give him his space and that i still loved and cared about him alot and for him to call me.He said sure and then i left.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntRight ok well this is complicated he wants space but your ringing and texting him and not giving him space to breathe, so lets make it easy for him send him a text or leave a message saying "i dont know whats going on and im confused so when you want to talk get in contact with me i wont contact if you dont" then DONT ring him DONT text him DONT get in contact at all he will come to you if he wants to and if not that im afriad thats it, but dont be disapointed if he is to much of a coward to tell you its over he isnt worth the heartache

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