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We're at different stages. First I was distant,, now I'm cuddly, but she just wants fun and excitement!

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Question - (4 January 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hi there

I am confused about my relationship. We have been together for just over 2 months after having a break for 6 months. (we were together before for 11 months)

The first time round the relationship deteriorated because she said I didn't show her enough attention. This is true. Towards the end I had started a new job and we had moved away.

Now we are back together, it is the other way round. We had a row the other day because I told her that I wanted to feel more loved and she said she wants excitment rather than love and affection. She tells me she loves me but I'm not sure I believe her.

I am happy to cuddle up on the couch and watch a film whereas she wants to go out a lot. Am I being too clingy? She wanted it like that before and I want it now! Please help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2006):

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Doesnt matter now cos we have split up!!!thanx anyway

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2006):

that is very spietful of your girlfriend,to take her emotions out on you. But don't take this too seriously,if it is getting you down too much then you should,girls feelings and emotions change alot. trust me, I know I'm a girl!!People can lie I'm afraid, but trust your girlfriend if she says she loves you and go out with her. If she keeps on going on at you, starting fights and rows, then maybe she's not right for you. If she doesn't take your feelings to heart, then she is a very selfish girl and noway deserves you.

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