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writes: Right so there's this guy. Yeah I like him. We hang out a bit, text each other a bit too. Not all the time. But yeah, we've been friends for a year and we fell out this time last year and didn't really talk to each other until January this year. We had a little fling when we first became friends, we liked each other and we kissed. We fell out, forgot why, but we've been talking since January, meeting up on valentines day, we kissed. I'd go to his house. His parents like me, we'd chill in his room and kiss and stuff, but feel out again like during spring half term. We started talking again just before summer started and met up a few times, didn't kiss him the first time, did the second time. And yesterday he came over and we had sex for the first time together. When we meet up he is soooo easy to talk to and get a long with we do actually act like a couple. We'll just lay there and hug each other. Sometimes he'll go to sleep and I'll watch TV. We play fight ALL the time and during we kiss like just like mwah if you know what I mean. We're just proper playful with each other. But when were texting he's so blunt, I just give up talking after a while.When we fell out the last time it's because I used to talk to him all the time and never gave him space. When I liked a guy, I'd talk to him all the time and they'd talk to me all the time, that's how it went. He wasn't like that though. Well we made up and I changed a lot, I wait until he talks to me and I only start the conversation every so often.Big bit here. I like him a lot and I'd like to go out with him. I'm too shy to ask him, and I won't ask him out. How do I get him to do it? He's never told me he likes me, he knows I like him (even though I haven't told him, he just knows.)
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reader, Kidchaos4  +, writes (27 August 2011):
Had that same experience with a girl. I think I was in love. Or something close to that. We were good friends, did stuff like an actual couple, talked about stuff like a boyfriend and a girlfriend would. Then she stopped talking to me. And she hasnt talked to me since. So practically she broke me heart. Have a talk with this person. He obviously is comfortable with you. Just ask him, you know, what's going on between you two.Seriously don't end up like me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011): He doesn't have to ask you out because he's getting everything from you like sex without having to date you properly. I think you are his back up girl and the best way not to be that is to require him to date you before you give it up. Tell him what you want and require no less but you may not like the reaction you get..he may not be interested in dating you or having you as a girlfriend but you'll keep your self respect.
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