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*ofialoren
writes:Ok so I am in a LDR with someone. We were both exchange students together in South Africa for 6 months before he had to go home and I had to remain behind for an extra six months. We are from different countries, I'm Irish and he's from Denmark.He is absolutely lovely, rather faultless however never been particularly good with replying to my texts (not always but its something I'd noticed)So now its been a month or so that hes gone back. And we talk a lot, texts whatever. Mid this week he was busy with something but he replied to my text. Then thursday, friday and saturday he didnt reply and when he did he apologized for being a slow replier and thats it continued from there. He even replied to my mail then.I had been so upset not because I think he's with someone else, he's not like that. I've lived with his family an he's very different, very nice. I miss those days we had together. I was upset because I feel like he couldnt care less what I was going through without his replies to my emails, texts whatever. And as I write this, I know its not true. But I have reasons to feel bad, yes.I have a few questions:1) We both really like each other, are mad about each other, our parents know we would like to end up together eventually, but maybe is this distance too hard? He's a darling, unlike people his age, more family oriented and not someone into partying and all but is this distance too hard for us?2) Is he drifting apart? I'm feeling sick as I think about this and keep remembering the days we had together, his face, his touch :(I'm going mad. I need some advice.Thanks :)
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reader, sofialoren +, writes (11 July 2010):
sofialoren is verified as being by the original poster of the question Logic Girl: I could hug you if I could :)
Thanks, that exactly what I need to hear :)
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reader, Logicgirl  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Distance is hard for every couple. For example, there's a couple, the girl has to move to another town and that towm is faaaaaaar far away. After the girl has moved the text to eachother, phone eachother. But they are far away from eachother, they drift apart. They meet new people and can be attracted to one of those 'new person' that they have met. But if you are crazy about eachother then there shouldn't be a problem. If you really like or love eachother then try taking your relationship to the 'next' stage. Then maybe, you can move to his country or he can move into yours. Of course there will be some problems with moving. And if you 'marry'(squeals) eachother, then you will be always together. Good luck and I hope you will be happy with your 'loved one'.
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