A
female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:how can i move on?i have been with this boy for 4 years. we've broken up an d made up often during our time together. the last time we broke up, i didnt bother. i thought we were best friends still. but last night he told me has met someone else, and he likes her company, and that she is compatible with him, and i am not. they are not together yet, and he says he still cares for me, but i am shattered. i pleaded with him to give me a last chance but he said he was not happy. he wasnt happy because i was suicidal, and he felt burdened. i am feeling to die, but at the same time i don't want to. i want to feel happy again. but he has found someone to confide in and talk to, whereas i have not. i have friends, but he was my favourite person to talk to, not just because of who he was to me, but because i enjoyed his company. i dont know what to do. he says he'd like to remain friends, though we must keep our distance. and part of me wants it for two reasons. as i said before, he's my favourite person to talk to, and i guess i am hoping he will come back.at the same time, if never comes back, i do not want to see him get closer to this other girl. i fear that i will never fall out of love with him (even after he is gone). what should i do? what can i do to move on?
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reader, Smiles  + ♥, writes (8 June 2008):
 I have empathy with you and realize you must be feeling hurt and dissapointed. However, your relationship was rocky and at least he was honest with you and still offered you his friendship. Allow him his freedom and respect his wish to move on.
I suggest you should get proffesional help for your feelings of depression, it might be a good idea to consult your doctor.
The right person will come along for you to, in the meantime take care of your health.
Make an appointment with your doctor.
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