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writes: dear cupid,i've been seeing a guy unofficially for about 18 months- we're good friends and really fancy each other but recently i've realised i've completely fallen for him. we both promised each other that aside from our friendship it was just a sex thing but i've let myself fall in a bit too deep. over the easter holidays he started saying he wanted me to be his girlfriend but at this point i didn't want to. we were very coupley for a couple of weeks then he said actually it wasnt what he wanted. i've now realised i do want him, and that i have for a while without realising, and i'm crushed by the thought of him finding someone else, which he probably will as he's gorgeous and lovely. i don't know whether to tell him how i feel or to end whatever relationship we have now to avoid future heartbreak. please help x
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reader, diamondcitygyrl  +, writes (4 July 2007):
Like the ther responses, tell him how you feel, and then go from there. He probably thinks you don't feel the same way so he's probably feeling questionable. If you love this guy, go for it.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (30 June 2007):
 Why not tell him how you feel at least then he will know and he can let you know how he feels, and if he does not feel the same about you then at least you know where you stand and you can move on with your life.
Take care.x.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 June 2007):
 If I were you, I would tell him what you want. My opinion is, you should always try; if you fail, at least you tried.
Good luck.
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reader, maryam +, writes (30 June 2007):
us girls are more vulnerable, we fall in love easily.
this is why i would never have a no strings relationship as this is the outcome we fall for someone.
Good luck dont worry it will be ok
mary xx
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