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age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi there. I met a woman on the internet last year and she said there was no chemistry. We went out for a drink and a meal and got on really well, we went back to the hotel and I asked her if she still wanted sex and she said yes - I am a woman also. I had sex with her but she never touched me. The next day she sent me home but then she kept on texting me saying she wanted to do it again. She came to my house 3 weeks later and I cooked her a meal, she pulled me down and then ended up going home, I got back friends with her and stayed over at her place a few weekends. Nothing happened we just had a laugh and drinks, we then went away for 2 weekend breaks she said we shouldn't have sex but she did want it and the next day she said she wanted to do it again. We did it about 5 times that weekend but when I asked her to touch me she said I can't. I went back to her house for her birthday party and felt intimidated by all her wealthy mates so I ran out of her house at 4 in the morning drunk and 60 miles away from home she never came after me and I was left to find my own way back home, I had no car and I had to catch a train. The next day she rang me and said we could never see each other again. I still feel hurt and I can't move on, I'm still in love with her. Can you give me some advice . Thank you. Jenny
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 Sounds like she was conflicted in having sex with another woman. She liked it but in her heart she couldnt handle that she was actually doing that, hence her flip flopping and not initiating any sex. I say let her go. You dont want someone who mistreats you emotionally and just gets their kicks without a thread of consideration for you. I personally have been in a situation like that (used and not loved) and it was excruciating. It isn't worth it, love. Don't let people like that hurt you. I wish I had some warm words or better things to say right now. I just hope you can find someone else who treats you 1000x better than this woman has.
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reader, JessIzFit +, writes (15 August 2007):
 Hey, i think you too had some different ideas, maybe you should let it go and find someone else maye ?
All my love
Louise
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Jenny, I feel like this woman had her own goals, and they certainly don't match yours. I say, it's best if you forget about her.
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