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41-50,
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writes:Am married to a controlling husband 17 yrs older than me i no longer luv him cos of his nature,i fell in luv with a married man 5yrs older than me we have the same likes and dislikes,we think about the the same things,we are planing to leave our passive spouses and leave together,we both have two kids each,i want to know if we are doing the right thing
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): having a "passive" spose is no excuse to cheat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2012): Married men are notorious for promising to leave their spouses and never doing it. You mentioned you have already left your husband because you live apart. Where does your married lover live?
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 life will become incredibly complicated for you as to some extent it already is. Having a controlling partner is the worst possible thing but I think after having a controlling partner you need time by yourself as it is the ultimate freedom, rather than having to compromise with someone else. Maybe your new man is the man. Only time will tell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012): Nobody on here can answer that question. Only you know the answer.If your unhappy then your right to do something about it,but who can say if this new man is going to make you happy long-term.
As there are four children involved too - will they be leaving with you, or is it just you and your lover going?
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (14 January 2012):
 Have you gotten a divorce? Will he allow you take the kids. What age are your kids? I take it you've been seeing this other guy already and things are moving fine. You should brace up and do the right thing. An abusive husband is nothing but a joy killer. Goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012): "i want to know if we are doing the right thing"
Ask your respective children.
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