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We want to have sex but she is too dry! Help!

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Question - (19 July 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2011)
A male Kenya age 30-35, *rturweezy writes:

I love my girl soo much which is tha same case with her.. Bt the problem is she is a "virgin".. Every time we try having sex she gets dry and it becomes difficult for me.. Help help? Or should i use a condom for lubrication??

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A male reader, arturweezy Kenya +, writes (23 July 2011):

arturweezy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanx to you guys that ma chick n i so happy.. Thanx for the answers.. Lube worked

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 July 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntsounds like she's scared or you are too rough or too large

again LUBE is your friend..

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A male reader, arturweezy Kenya +, writes (19 July 2011):

arturweezy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Ok i do foreplays n she gets really wet.. But the moment i place ma organism.. She gets dry instant

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 July 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou need LUBE for lubrication...

you need CONDOMS for safety.... always...until you are in a committed monogamous relationship and you have both had STD testing...

are you "prepping" her for sex with lots of foreplay?

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (19 July 2011):

k_c100 agony auntCondoms do not provide lubrication. They stop you from catching STD's and prevent pregnancy, but they cant make her lubricated. If you want her to not be dry down there, then spend some more time on foreplay, getting her really turned on and excited. Or buy some lube and use that.

But make sure you ALWAYS use a condom to prevent diseases and pregnancy, and she should be on birth control too so she doesnt get pregnant.

I hope this helps and good luck!

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A male reader, MugenTj United States +, writes (19 July 2011):

MugenTj agony auntWhat did you try? Girls takes a bit of time to become wet. Kiss, touch, squeeze, oral, finger...then maybe she'll be ready. First time will be messy though. Be prepared. It won't be easy. Do think about contraceptives and possible side effects as well as effectiveness. Check this out and do some Googling yourself: http://www.fwhc.org/birth-control/fam.htm

Remember, be responsible!

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