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writes:for the past two weeks myself and lover have been waking at the same time everyday, we have a child together but don't live together as he is now married, could the waking at the same time be coincidence or a sign that we should be together, we have been on and off the the last 9 years Reply to this Question |
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 My Grandmother and I coincidentally wake up at almost the exact same time every day as well but that doesn't mean we are meant for each other. The only sign that the two of you will be together would have happened when he left his wife for you after he found out you were pregnant. What is actually happening in life takes precedent over the "shoulds" and "woulds". Don't should all over yourself.
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reader, rhythmandblues2 + ♥, writes (9 June 2008):
 I don't believe in signs, but after an on again off again relationship of 9 years you don't get that it is over when he married someone else, you wouldn't read a sign if it was printed right on your forehead and someone gave you a mirror, of course it would be backwards, and you would tell yourself, well that must be a sign it isn't a sign, I can't read it.
Come on, get a grip, stop having anything to do with this guy and move on already. Your child, does he even know his father? Only stay civil with him for the child's sake, but you are literally wasting your own heart to keep thinking you are supposed to be together, you are not, he chose and married someone else.
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reader, Dr. Reality Check +, writes (9 June 2008):
 I think you are clutching at straws here. Read what you have written - it comes across this end that you are desperate for this guy, but the truth is he doesn't want to know. If he truly wanted you and you alone he wouldn't still be with him wife would he? Unfortunately, this type of man has a habit of stringing their bit on the side along to make them think they are eventually going to leave their wife - but they never seem to. From what I understand of the situation, he wants you for sexual favours, not a relationship.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 June 2008):
 If your "lover" married someone else after knowing you, he obviously doesn't have the slightest interest in being exclusively with you. I guess he just likes the sex you give him and that's all. Sorry dear but you sound very pathetic. What difference does it make what time you wake up if you don't smell the coffee?
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