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We used to talk all the time, now we don't seem to have anything to say

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Question - (1 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I know my boyfriend for almost one year.first we were good friends, then became best friends and now he is my boyfriend. it's been six months since we started our new relationship. I liked him because he was a really nice guy and he always stayed calm and never got angry. we used to talk a lot all the time..but things started to change now.we don't talk that much now a days. even we start talking we do not have anything to talk. I don't know what is happening between us..so i thought he is no longer interested in our relationship so we had talk over this. I told him if he is not interested we can stop everything. When i said it he got really upset and emotional. I don't know what's happening?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (1 July 2010):

chigirl agony auntPrion said what I wanted to say. If you do everything together there might not be much to talk about any longer. Try keeping some level of mystery in your relationship to keep it fun and exciting. Remember how you used to treat each other in the past! Often relationships may end up in a rut, where everything gets routine. In the beginning everything was new and exciting and you enjoyed each others company so much. Now, perhaps you started to take each other for granted. So remind yourself of why you fell in love, and how you used to treat him, and start doing it again. Don't take him for granted.

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A female reader, tich United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2010):

if thats the case hun finish it im 59yr old and hun it aint worth it try sitting him down an ask him out rite wot he wants explain to him its hurting you and him if you carry on the way you are your only young you have the whole world in front of you dont waste it

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