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We text and fight, then meet, make up then make out! Now he wants to be just friends?

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Question - (14 February 2018) 8 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2018)
A female India age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I am in relationship from 4 months,we fight alot on texts.Almost every week we decide to break up.But when we meet, we just kiss amd make out ,there is no fight at all.Now again after fight he wants to be only friends.Will we be able to stay as friends?

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A female reader, femmenoir Australia +, writes (20 February 2018):

femmenoir agony auntYou can still go to class, see him and do what you need to do, to get your life in order and to get ahead in your life, whereby your education is concerned.

You simply treat this guy and his classmate, the same way you'd treat any classmate.

Forget about him and start thinking about you and your true needs, wants and desires.

If he remains a part of your life, there goes your life!!

Make a change for the better and let him go for good.

You'll be thanking yourself 100 fold thereafter, for having done so.

Good luck!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (18 February 2018):

Honeypie agony auntTreat him like you treat ALL the other classmates. Don't spend time alone with him.

Be firm if he asks you to hang out. Tell him no.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2018):

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Thank you for your replies , Iam feeling alot better.You are right I should not waste time.But the problem is he is classmate , How should I deal with him?

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A female reader, femmenoir Australia +, writes (16 February 2018):

femmenoir agony auntPlease stop wasting your time with this guy and within this peculiar and immature relationship.

You are deserving of so much more and surely you must know that you can do much better.

You take the higher ground and do what's best for you, meaning it would be best for you, to break it off with this guy and move forward with your life, allowing yourself permission, to meet the right men.

Also, when you move on, do not remain in any contact with this guy, because he will only weigh you and your future down.

Good luck!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (15 February 2018):

aunt honesty agony auntIf you are deciding to break up almost every week, then something is not working in this relationship. You are both going around in circles and fighting over the phone and breaking up sounds immature. Honestly it might be that you are both not ready for a relationship, or it could be he is playing games. Either way you must see that this is never going to work. I am sure you want more than this from a man?

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A female reader, mystiquek United States + , writes (15 February 2018):

mystiquek agony auntWhy are you even bothering? There's too many guys out there to chose from. He's being immature and playing games.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2018):

N91 agony auntThis sounds pointless.

Doesn't sound like much of a relationship to me. I'd just forget abut this guy and move on with my life.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (15 February 2018):

Honeypie agony auntWhy keep doing this? It doesn't sound healthy or caring at all.

Sounds like you are wasting your time. you two go around in circles over and over, either fighting, breaking up or making out? Is that really what you want?

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