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We only have sex when he wants to and in his manner, friends say he is using me, what to do?

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Question - (31 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, *hippy2 writes:

Another weekend and I am feeling sick - my bf and I have been together for 3 yrs - since July things have been rocky when I confronted him about advertising himself on the sex friend sites. He has his girls who are 11 and 13 hating me and he sometimes calls and sometimes doesnt.

He makes plans then doesnt give me enough time to get ready - I wont go anywhere the girls go unless he talks to them about how they talk to me - and he hasnt since June!

Friday night we went out and he wouldnt hold my hand but wanted me to stop by his house on the way back to give him oral sex! I said NO WAY but usually I would have.

I am fed up - we used to just plan on doing things together now I get left out even when he mentions things -

He is on internet dating but calls me and text me to keep in touch - some friends say he is just using me to have a pal and buddy around ( we only have sex when he wants to his way)

I dont want to waste anymore time - so how do I decide what to do?

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (1 September 2008):

dearkelja agony auntExactally why would you want to stay with this loser? He doesn't care about you. There is someone out there who will treat you way better.

Tell him to let the door hit him in the ass on the way out.

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A female reader, MissWendlemoot Australia +, writes (31 August 2008):

MissWendlemoot agony auntSo why is the decision on what to do so difficult in this case?

He is potentially cheating or wants to.

His kids treat you like dirt and he allows it

He has no regard for your feelings

What more does he need to do to be able to dump this fool?

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