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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi really hope someone can give me some good advice i met a man in july met up a few times had a few dates then i heard nothing for a month until a text saying he is in a awkward situation which he genuinely was we talked on Christmas eve and decided to make another go of things even though he is still in the situation until february the problem is we had sex for the first time together on yesterday now i have heard nothing from him at all today what do i do now do i text him or ring him or wait and see if he contacts me i just really don't want to be hurt by him again thank you
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reader, CMMP +, writes (28 December 2013):
If him not calling you the day after you have sex is causing you to get all bothered then you may be the one with the problem.
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reader, rcn +, writes (28 December 2013):
 Is he someone who just wants to have sex? It could be. What you need to keep in mind is that sex does not equate to having a relationship. I think you should have waited to find out what his intent would be before having sex. I'd say that if you don't hear from him in the next few days, try contacting him, but don't be surprised if the outcome is not what you would hope for. Also, although you two had sex, it was just an act between you two. If it doesn't work out, don't let the fact you had sex hurt you. It was an experience in that moment, treat it as that. Take care.
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