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writes:myself and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. we lived together and recently he has moved out after months of arguing and acting like a married couple and doesnt know if he wants to break up. i know he loves me and i love him he. he is in two minds at the moment ad thinks the easy option is to break up but half of him wants to make it work. what should i do? is there a chance that he will give me a second chance to prove myself?
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (23 February 2007):
 Okay, so you get back together and he moves back in. Can you see things changing? Do you know where the problems lie? Have you spoken about what it is exactly that you both find anoying about each other? THAT has to be done and ironed out before you can go any further in this relationship. Seems to me he's wanting his space for now so I would back off and give him some time to himself to think this all through. He'll come back to you when his head's clear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): I think you have already proved yourself. And you guys just might not be all that compatible- not every set of two people in the world are capable of living together.
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reader, cheesy_babe +, writes (22 February 2007):
 i think that you can't be with some one and not be upset that you left them, i think you need to call/meet him and sort things out, but honestly it is really on his reply that everything else lies.also DON'T move in with your boyfriend again, a relationship works so much better when you don't see a person 24-7 this applies with a friend, boyfirend and even family. it will be better for both of you because fi you have a fight, he can go home cool off and see you again. you need to be able to have this. also the little things that made you fight won't be so bad and you will soon notice how much closer you get to him :Dhope i helpedgood luck!!!
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