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We like each other but he teases me about my height - why??

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Question - (5 August 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, anonymous writes:

Hey,

Theres a lad who I really like and his actions towards me suggest that he likes me, too. Theres one thing that really gets to me about him though and that is that he teases me (takes the p*** really) about my height because Im only 5' 3".Childish for a lad of almost 17, I know!! He's only 5' 9" himself, so hes hardly the tallest guy ever!! It confuses me, though, because he says he loves girls who are small or petit!!

Why's he doing this? I'm confused!!

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

Haha could always do what some of my friends used to do to a guy with long hair - Hi Baldy or and then for some one with tight/short/shaved hair - Hi Curly! They all saw the funny side of it and laughed! It was like an ice breaker!

You can always say hi Shorty to this guy thats teasing you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008):

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Hey all =]

Thanks for your answers - they really helped to reassure me!!

DrPsych, I think your right about having some witty one-liners to throw back at him, so Ill have to think of some lol =]

I think for now though I just use the "Well you're only 5'10" - thats not exactly tall for a man!!"

Thanks all again for the answers =]

xx

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (5 August 2008):

scrazy agony auntHe's just teasing you. If it bothers you that much, tell him to stop.

But it's just his odd way of flirting (boys are weird, what do you expect?). He already told you he likes smaller girls - so he obviously has no problem with your height.

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A female reader, Ask oldersister United States + , writes (5 August 2008):

Ask oldersister agony auntHe likes you that's why he's teasing you about this. Do you like short guys? You are the perfect height and he's just short.

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A male reader, Uncle_Phil United Kingdom + , writes (5 August 2008):

Uncle_Phil agony auntAll good answers below.

Just ask him what the weather is like up there!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008):

Yeah, I really would not worry about it unless you think he's being totally disrepectful to you over it.

He's probably just sensitive about his own height at 5'9" himself. Height seems to bother most guys under about 5' 10-11" at least a little bit even if they don't get teased about it. Most guys want to be about 6'2" and they're at least a little bit jealous if they're anything less.

Most guys don't really think height in a girl is so attractive they way girls usually think it is in men. Most guys just don't think that much about it either way when they look at girls.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (5 August 2008):

kenny agony auntI think that it is just harmless fun to be honest, and i would not take it to heart. Truth be told most guys prefer girls to be smaller anyway.

All the best x

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A female reader, sofiamorgan United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2008):

sofiamorgan agony auntIts the way boys are. My ex always used to tease me about my height....but he did genuinely care about me as well. Its just the way they are I'm afraid!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008):

Maybe thats his way of telling you that he likes you - some guys aren't great at expressing how they feel about girls! And the only way they kno is to make fun of them!!

Don't worry about your height - I'm 31 and exactly same height as you and its never stopped me doign anything in my life! My last boyf was exactly one foot taller than me - he was 6'3 so I had to wear high heels every time we were out *L*

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2008):

DrPsych agony auntYou have to go with the joke...he is just flirting in a bumbling teenage way! Honestly there is nothing wrong with your height and maybe you should get some one-liners sorted out ready to hit him back with.

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (5 August 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntIt's fun to tease girls that we like, it's not to be mean. Usually it's because we want their attention.

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