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We have sex 3 times a week but this isnt enough for me, any suggestions?

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Question - (29 November 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2012)
A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have a very healthy sex life. I loe to explore and try new things. I could have sex several times a day if my partner would let me. I have never had a man turn me down for sex before but my current partner stops me from touching him sometimes. He says jokingly he is on his period. Should I be insulted that he doesn't want me or do you think I'm asking to much? We currently have sex maybe three times a week. NEVER enough for me. Any suggestions??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2012):

I'm only 38 and I can't do it 3 times a week. Your man is doing very well for his age. But I understand that you need to be satisfied as well.

Being touched while not being in the mood feels a bit weird. Please don't feel insulted.

You can try to change his diet. Some foods increase the sex drive. You can also try sex games. Role playing. Porn. Lingerie. But at the end of the day, you may get 5 or 6 times a week. Still much less than what you need.

The other option is toys. The good thing about toys is, you can use them by yourself or you can have your partner use them on you. Vibrators are very effective and they don't get tired until they make you sexually exhausted.

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A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom +, writes (29 November 2012):

oldbag agony auntHi

Find a man who has the same sex drive and ability to sustain it. Or ~ buy some toys and use them on the quiet days.Your partner has a different labido,doesn't mean he doesn't want you.So many women would appreciate 3 times a week rather than once in a blue moon so at least he is putting in the hours.Hes only human after all

How long have you been together ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2012):

And I don't mean talking dirty, I mean like telling him he's a good lover and nothing feels better than his body on yours. That type of thing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2012):

I've read just recently that men go through kind of like a man menopause iin their 40's. this causes them to be less likely to get turned on by being touching and seeing a woman's naked body but by words and passion.

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A female reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth India +, writes (29 November 2012):

Foot-In-My-Mouth agony auntYou do have a higher sex drive than average, and he doesn't. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you or want you. People have different sexual needs. So fly solo! And respect his preference.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (29 November 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou should not be insulted you just have different drives.

I have a higher drive than my husband and it's frustrating but it's not a reflection on me or how he feels about me...

three times a week is a lot at your age and if you are still horny masturbate.

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