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26-29,
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writes:me and my Girlfriend been fighting with each other for the past couple weeks. It's about stupid stuff, the littlest stuff is getting to us. And she don't like how i catch a attitude with her really quick after i get done hanging out with my friends, and she don't think i trust her cause i had one of my friends "watching her". The fact is, i love my Gf with all my heart, i'm scared i might lose her. She said she don't care if we break up etc.. And i started crying, we talking about giving each other a break. I don't want that, i don't know what i wanna do, its my head or hurt i'm going to listen to?? :(
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (3 November 2012):
 If you did have somebody watch her that really isn't healthy in a relationship. You are very young to be fighting and having such a hard time with a GF. Maybe a break would be a good way to sort out what you want to do.
If this really isn't what you want then you need to tell her, learn to trust her and sit down together and work out a way to avoid the silly little fights and focus on being young and having fun!
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reader, DV1 +, writes (2 November 2012):
 You had someone watching her? You'll need to explain more before any of us can help you... It sounds like you might have insecurity/control issues that you might need to work through before you can be in a relationship with her. If she needs a break/space, give it to her. Just be prepared that it's probably over. There's nothing you can do, but give her space and see if she comes back to you. Don't keep apologizing, because she's going to lose respect for you. Tell her you trust her, then let it be...
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reader, DV1 +, writes (2 November 2012):
You had someone watching her? You'll need to explain more before any of us can help you... It sounds like you might have insecurity/control issues that you might need to work through before you can be in a relationship with her. If she needs a break/space, give it to her. Just be prepared that it's probably over. There's nothing you can do, but give her space and see if she comes back to you. Don't keep apologizing, because she's going to lose respect for you. Tell her you trust her, then let it be...
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