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We hang out and he tells me he loves me, but why wont he ask me out ?

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Question - (11 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I talk to this guy everynight on the phone and we hang out on the weekends and sometimes after school during the week. We have done stuff together and he tells me he loves me, but he won't ask me out. Why won't he ask me out?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007):

Hi, Maybe he thinks that you are already 'going out' so to speak. You speak everyday and see each other at weekends. If you are spending most of your free time together then it sounds like you are already going in that direction.

If in doubt, ask him where this is going and if he wants anything past the friend boundary.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007):

Maybe, if he actually doesn't have a girlfriend, that he is too shy to ask you out. So why don't you do it instead? As for when you say we have done stuff together what do you mean by that? Have you kissed? Slept together? If you have slept together and he is over 16 then he could get in serious trouble with the police. So if you have just kissed but are thinking about sleeping together don't, not until you are at least of the legal age of 16.

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