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writes:hi agony aunts i wonder if you could help me.You see the thing is i slept with a guy who i really like and i know he likes me but my best friend kept flirting with him and she told me she didnt see him as a potential boyfriend for her so i thought that was the end of it. but then me and him slept together but i havent heard from him since which i dont get as he cant avoid me as he lives with two of my most longest and trusted male friends. Whats going on? and what do i do? P.s hes in the same pub i go to every weekend
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reader, lovato94  +, writes (20 June 2007):
Well im sorry but unfortunately in this case that pretty much means that he doesn't like u. Sorry to be so bold but sometimes thats just how things are.
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reader, so_in_love +, writes (19 June 2007):
Leave him to contact you, if he doesn't then he wasn't worth it.
You've tried, you've done your part. Some lads are knobheads and will do things like this, never have casual sex unless you're sure you will be ok with all possible outcomes.
Its nothing to do with you, some guys just don't know how to treat a girl. Either that or he doesn't know how you feel about him.
Good luck. xxx
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reader, rhythmandblues2  + ♥, writes (19 June 2007):
 I would not call or text him anymore....and if he does call you later on, don't say anything about not hearing from him.
Men can feel vulnerable after having sex for the first time, and it could take him up to a month even to look you up again....he probably either freaked out fearing that you were going to start acting as if you are his girlfriend, or that he is going to like you more than he wants to right now.
There is really nothing you can do about this, except next time wait until you really know a guy wants you around before sleeping with him unless you are in it for a one night stand
Don't wait around for him, get out and keep busy and by all mean date around, not sleep around....if he wants to call you, he knows where to find you, and if he doesn't that is his loss, not yours.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Obviously he is not interested. If you are not into one night stands then keep a nickel between your knees until you have established a relationship before having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust for the record. i have called and text him and there is no reply!
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reader, lovato94 +, writes (19 June 2007):
Why don't you call him?
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reader, Skeez + ♥, writes (19 June 2007):
 This is very common. I reckon that he is being shy or he is worried, thinking that you didntreally want to have sex with him and thats the reason your not calling him either.
I think you should just pick up the phone and call him yourself. Explain what you just said in your post to him and ask him if anything is going to go further. Im sure he is just acting the same way as you are now, worried and anxious. Im possitive he will be very happy if you called him.
Good luck hun
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