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writes: Ive known this guy for over a year and we have hooked up in the past. Last week we ran into each other a few times, each time we were drunk. Last night we ran into each other at a party and ended up having sex. We had pretty kinky sex last night. I have been interested in him for over a year and was really excited to spend time and hook up with him. However, now I feel like he won't want to talk to me. I don't want a relationship or to date, I rather just have sex with him. Do you think I should call him if he doesn't contact me?
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reader, Yos  +, writes (9 November 2009):
 Most men when offered no-strings-attached kinky sex will say 'are you free right now, can I come over?'.
I would make your conditions clear, I doubt you'll have too much trouble. Until you start to develop feelings for him that is. Don't expect him to want a relationship further down the road if this is how you start.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (9 November 2009):
Might as well if you're not really concerned about anything further than a sexual relationship, because there's really not much to lose if you don't want anything more from him than just sex. So yeah, call him if you don't hear from him--just make it clear you want a bootycall.
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reader, generalist  +, writes (9 November 2009):
yes,
pls speak to him...
sex or relationship...its always better that u make your intentions very clear to each other before going for anything..
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