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We had sex and now...he doesn't care! Help me please?

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Question - (12 January 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *x-angel eyes-x- writes:

okay well here i go, this is my story...

i have been meeting this cute boy for about 3wks now nd i have been getting strong feelings for him since we had sex..i have done evrything with this boy thn i eva have dun with any other..i told him the other day i have fallen deep for him and its like he doesnt care!! he told me he doesnt want a girlfriend yeh, buh he carries on meeting me..i told my best friend about this and..she thinks that he is using me for just 1 thing..im really into him, but frm that day i told him how much i like him, we seemed to arguee all the tym, but we do start tlking again the next day! im really fallen for him and i wudnt bare it if we stopped meeting..

plzz helpp mee=(

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A female reader, Lillia United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2007):

Lillia agony auntHeya.... I noe this girl and him and her were togther for a while and they had sex at 14. i dont think there is anything wrong with it... if you are ready to do it then your ready, there is always goin ot be someone who says it wernt the right time! But in this situation he seems as though he only wants 1 thing and thats pleasure. And i know its hard to accept that this might be true but 4rom listenin to my friend it is a hard thing to get used to and the situation is the same.

Do you get people saying to you that he is not worth it??

Please if you do then dont listen to anyone else it is you who is in the relationship.

Try and speak to him about this but after experiance people will say 'i love you' and you will think he is the right one for you so you will make desions like sex and create deep feelings but something always pops up and you will be taken by surprise! So have a chat with him and next time think before you do things becuase then you may find out if he really does like you!

Only you can decide what to do so dont listen to other people.... TRUST ME lol

Good luck hunnie

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A female reader, -x-angel eyes-x- United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2007):

-x-angel eyes-x- is verified as being by the original poster of the question

-x-angel eyes-x- agony auntthank you for helpin me nd i will try nd do what you have said =D..thnk yeww xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007):

yeh that sounds like he is probably leading you on and using you, try talking to him about it. if he doesnt talk about it then hes not worth it

good luck xx

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A female reader, Cordelia +, writes (12 January 2007):

Cordelia agony auntHey, wel this is definatley my kinda question, ive split up form my current fiancee about a million times and eaxh time we have just got back together, everytime we split up it feels like the end of the world, but believe me its not!!! During the times we have been apart i have learned so much, like independance, how to deal with lonliness and loads more skills like that. Then if he does come abck to you you will know that if he does decide to split up again then you can do it.

AND LET ME JUST STATE ONE THING CLEARLY!!!!!

Dont ever listen to anyone who tells you , people come back for only one thing, its not true my relationship os so much better than it was the first time. and ps dont make my mistake, make sure he loves you before you sleep with him, and if he says he'll finish with you get rid off him!!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Cordi

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