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anonymous
writes: I went to a party and got totally drunk and had sex with a boy a year older than me. Everything was safe and we are still talking, but in school his friends are taking the mick out of me and so are my friends. He doesn't seem to be doing anything about it but i want to tell him to help sort things out once and for all. What can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't seem to have the courage to talk to him. Everytime i try, i get twitchy and nervous and end up babbling a load of rubbish. What is happening to me? Why am i acting this way? It doesn't happen with anyone else, just him. I've tried texting him to meet up but he always seems to be busy with revising for exams we have coming up. He's not my boyfriend and I feel scared to talk to him in school in case of what other people will say. What can i do now? I tried ignoring it and it isn't working. Please help me!
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reader, alymarshall +, writes (8 January 2008):
 you need to speak to him and tell him that you dont like the way his friends talk about you if he does nothing about it he is not a man but a pathetic boy and you walk away with your head held high hope this helps x x
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (7 January 2008):
 School kids are the worst but im sure it wont last long they will find something else to giggle over, i know its a pain for you but you just have to ignore them its more then likely there jealous, but talk to this guy and see if he can talk to his friends and tell them to be mature about it after all its only sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008): are you going out with this guy? i am the same age as you and in general i think its best to not have sex at parties. but you were drunk and whats done is done so now you need to deal with it.
i personally dont give a shit what people think of me so i personally would just ignore your friends and his. if they are good friends they shouldnt take the piss if it is really upsetting you.
if you dont want to ignore it, take the upper hand, are some of them virgins? then rub it in their faces that u had sex, and it was good. play them at their own game.
gd luck yeah
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (7 January 2008):
 The people in your school are being very immature over the whole situation. The trick is to show that you are not bothered by whats is being said, hold you head up high and rise above it all. Invaribly people like this are looking for a reaction, and if that don't get one over time they will get fed up and move onto something else. As for this guy, i don't know what your situation is with him, whether he is your boyfriend or not, but you could ask him to be a little bit more supportive torwards you.
All the best x
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