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We had an amazing night together, but my friends tell me he's only after sex and a visa! How do I ask him if his interest in me is genuine?

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Question - (4 October 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *bhdt x writes:

So I am a holiday rep working in turkey! I met a guy at the begining of season and we have been talking ever since due to me being moves resort i only got to see him twice in four months but now i have been moved back to the same resort and get to spend my last month here with him. I met up with him and we had an amazing night but people keep filling my head with doubts! I really like this guy and think he likes me but im not sure my friends keep telling me he is turkish and only after sex and a visa, but surely if this was all he wanted he wouldnt have kept talking to me every day and night when i was so far away would he?! I know i need to talk to him and find out where i stand with the whole thing but i just dont know how to bring it up or what to say!

Thanks in advance x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2015):

I don't know about the visa but yes he is after a bit of easy lay.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (4 October 2015):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntThis one is easy. You say to him, "Hunchy-bunchy, people tell me that you only stay in-touch with me because you like it that I put out for you. Is that so?"

His answer will be the answer to the question you've asked.

Good luck....

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