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*sianguy524
writes:please help me here because i dont know what to do..there is this girl i've met through a friend last 4 weeks. we are both in college leves and in different schools. im half chinese/fil and she is pure korean. at the first moment that we met each other. we already texted everyday. we started to get to know each other everyday. i even said i liked her and she was happy about it. believe me when i say that i know that she has interest in me too. last week we went out on a date and it was perfect. we watched movie and ate dinner. she even paid for our dinner even when i said like 5x that i should pay for everything since im the guy but she really resisted that she wants to pay. anyway the night was happy. i even asked her to go out on a friday night. she said that she will let me know since she has things to do. the next day we talked again, txted about our school and plans. she said that she has assignments to do for the whole week. the next day we didnt texted at all. no communications. she didnt contacted me at all too. i didnt text her because i think she was really busy about her assignments. then i texted her yesterday. she seems not in a good mood. she replied less and she was moody. i dont know whats going on. please help me here.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 You need to test whether she is interested in you or not, so tell her something along the lines of hey, am going to be pretty busy the next week so don't get upset if I don't have time to text you ... then wait. Don't text her until she texts you. You must stop chasing. Only then will you see if she has any pull towards you - at the moment you can't see, as you are pulling too hard.
Sorry ... this might be hard to do, but she has the power to upset you, and you need to draw back and neutralise that, until you get some commitment from her.
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reader, Lukey09 +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Dude chill out
Sounds like the girl may be having a stressful time with her college work at the min and needs to focus on that maybe. It does not mean she dosent like you though. Just try not to be like a puppy begging for attention, give her space and she will come running!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): She may wanted sex with you she achieved it so or she may have misunderstand on you
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