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writes:I was in a relationship just over a year, we got on really well, it was a shock when we split, even though i had postnatel depression, we did argue alot, but that was after the baby came. Anyway I fell pregneat within 2-3months off meeting him, we both argreed to keep the baby. Now me and my ex have split up about 4months now, he has moved on, got himself another girlfriend, said his not going back, he wants to go forward, thats fine, his been with the girl for about 4months now. Yes right after we split up.Dispite whats happened and the why it has happened we are still on ok talking terms, every so often we will have a argument it last for, will not even a day, then we are back to being friends again...The reason we fight is because he sometimes likes to push the fact he has a girlfriend in my face. Ive said to him don't do it...sometimes he says he don't realise his doing it. He always says I start the arguments but thats not ture.He has another child from another relationship, his daurghter is six now. My ex does not even speak to his child mother at all, unless its to do with arrangements for his daughter. My question is, the 1st month we split up he told me i wasn't his type, can men really be that heartless, and why did he argree to have a child with me, do you think his in a rebound relationship? We have a love hate relationship, sometimes when im looking good and sound happy its like he wants to bring a black cloud over my happeness, what do you think is going on with this guy, why is he trying to make me jealous, its like im the one that left and cheated, the way he carrys on sometimes.A few months ago he did say if this relationship with the girl don't work out he will consentrate on looking after me and our daughter, i said to him i don't think so. Last week it looked like he was giving me mixed message saying he really mises his daughter, his other daughter loves me, his been a bad boyfriend etc, showing intrest iun my love life, saying i look nice (never said it once when we split)Whats going on?
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reader, Escalaya  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 you could very well be a rebound, but ultimately there's no way of knowing for sure. I personally broke up, and started dating this same girl, over, and over. for a long time, and i know i hurt her, and I truly do love her deeply, I was just indecisive and unsure of what I wanted. It COULD be the same with him. The best thing to do is confront him, and just say, "You know what man? What the fuck is goin` on." Maybe not necessarily worded like that.
Best of luck, and take care.
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