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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello. A few weeks ago I met this boy, we got on incredibly well, and we met up on a date and that went really well too, and then he backed off and stopped talking to me. I thought to myself, oh well hes not interested, and started dating some other lad. Then, he comes back saying he was sorry, and that hes been an idiot, and that he really likes me and just needed time and stuff. So it was all ok again, he even said he thought he loved me! We met up again, he was very affectionate and loving towards me, we kissed alot, and it was all very nice. But now, i feel hes backing off again, even though he swears he isn't. He's so nice to me, and we get on so well. Is he not ready or is he using me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): I think it is pretty common for young 16 year old boys to back off from relationships....they are insecure and just don't know what they want, but relationships at this age are not meant to last most of the time anyway, so just enjoy yourself and have fun, and try not to worry to much about whether or not he is yours, date some other boys if you want to.
One way you can know whether or not he is using you, is to not be too fast, or have sex with him (you are too young to be doing that anyway), if he enjoys just being in your company than I would say he is interested in getting to know you...try to be each other's friend.
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