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writes: I am 22 years old and my boyfriend on 5 years broke up with me about 2 weeks ago we never talk and I never see him i have read alot that if you want a man back then don't chase him and give him some time but i also read that if you do want a future with him then talk to him more often. I am going crazy and i want to know if there is a way i can try to get him back because i miss him so much and I just want to be with him. can ya'll please give me some advice because i am going crazy and i just want to get him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice ya'll gave me.My boyfriend broke up with me and we were together for 4 years he broke up with me because he said that he was not happy because all the fighting and arguing we did our relationship has been alright at the end but just with alot of fighting and arguing. So its been 2 weeks and some days since i last talked to him I followed the female readers advice and I wrote him 2 letters but I still never heard back from him I am having the hardest time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): i broke up wid my man 2 weeks ago...been together three years...i feel weird..cz i want him bak so badly..bu why hasnt heeee med the effort to mek things better? i always end up making up wid him..bu..the fing we have to remember chick..is that life is to short for all thisss crap...if u love him..u go out n get him back...n u kno wa..im gna go n get my man bak..i kno me n him belong together...even tho he is a stubborn arse sumtimes..god bless u and urs...friend...p.s let us know wa happend x
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 Honestly, I have tried both approaches to getting my ex back before and the "No Contact" thing worked as far as her missing me but she found other outlets, like another guy. Then calling her and going out with her made her content in the situation because she had the relationship without the commitment. She could do as she pleased and could always throw in my face that "we are not together". Every situation varies and it depends on a lot of factors like; Who broke up with who? Why did you break up? How was the relationship when you broke up? I found spending time with her and then having no contact for about a week or two worked. I still haven't gotten her back and am now at a place were I don't know if I do now or not and we dated for 7 years. Its a hard call. You have to do what you feel more comfortable with. You have to know your mate and do what you think is most effective. The main thing is to be strong for yourself and make yourself love you again. Good Luck.
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