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writes:me and my bf broke up....is it wrong to still have sex with him if we are "just friends"
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): If you have broken up you should NOT, repeat NOT, be having sex with him!
Look: broken up means the relationship is ended, finished, over and done with. Therefore, why would you still want to have sex? Either you are together as bf/gf or you're not, and if you are not, then you should both be moving on with your lives, separately, and not even be meeting, let alone having sex!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (23 February 2007):
 Is it wrong? No. But if you're going to break up for REAL, and start seeing other people, well... this arrangement can feel reeeeaaallllyyy crappy after awhile. Someone's feelings always get hurt. If you're trying to get over this guy, don't sleep with him. It'll only make the break-up process more difficult.
xxIndia
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reader, childof1981 +, writes (23 February 2007):
 I think that all depends on you. Do you still love him? Are you hoping that sex will draw him back into a relationship? or to create some kind of emotional closeness? If you are looking for those things, then you are probably headed for heartbreak.If you are looking for an convenient source of sexual gratification until you move on, then I think you are in the clear.
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reader, neeneeuno  +, writes (23 February 2007):
 Everyone does things like this but later regrets it, you broke up with him for a reason and it must have been substantial... remember that and why would you want to be tied to him all the time... your keeping old luggage... you made the first step to get rid of half now just get rid of the other half and forget him.. b x
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (23 February 2007):
 It is wrong to have sex with your boyfriend if you still have feelings and seriously want to work things out with him because 'just friends' means that he`ll be on the lookout for someone else. Id talk this out with him and make things clear for yourself on whether you could cope with just being his 'fuck buddy', i think its an horrible way to end a relationship. End it once and for all and dont have any contact with him and just wait and see how he reacts, he`ll soon come crawling back once he see`s your in control of the relationship and not him.
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