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writes:Me and my Ex boyfriend have been dating on and off...at first we were goin out then we broke up...during the break up we went out and did things a couple would do but never claimed ourselves as one...i have been ignoring him because i feel that hes been lying about things and its hard for me to do that...now he has a girlfriend...a girl that really wanted to go out with him while we were dating..and i feel heart broken...while we were in class he sent me a text sayin how he had strong feelings for me and that one day hes going to show how he feels...but I don't know what to do..i still have feelings for him and i dnt want to..because he was my first love..sometimes i just look at him and feel angry... What should i do???
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (11 March 2007):
 The best thing to do next time he texts you something like that is reply... "Sorry, but I think you're texting the wrong person here." Talk to him briefly and assertively and let him know you don't want to be with him any more, especially with another girl in tow. Then make yourself scarce for a while. Don't answer his texts (even although it will kill you,) don't answer his phone calls and don't hang about where you know he hangs about. Let him MISS you! Be courteous to him in school but don't go out of your way to speak to him and just let him get on with it.
If he really DOES have feelings for you then he'll miss your company both in school and by text and soon get back with you. DON'T let him know how you really feel though or he'll just keep you hanging. ;o)
Eve
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 I think he has been very unfair to you. He has a new girlfriend yet he is sending you this sort of text. He is keeping you hanging on. Being hurt like this is very hard and also seeing him with someone else must be unbearable for you. I know that you still have feelings for him but you need to get him out of your head and move on with your life. He has, even though I think he is expecting you to hang around for him.
Good luck
Aunty t
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