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We broke up but I still her, she has a boyfriend so I don't want to tell her and be selfish!

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Question - (20 October 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago, and i have accpeted the fact that were not together and that were now friends, but the thing is, im still in love wit her, and i would tell her this, but she has got a new bf and i dont wana be a jackass and be selfish, we still see each other on a friday n saturday nite, due to our circle of friends being the same, but i just get this feeling that she is doing this to spite me, im confused coz she sends me mixed signals, i have givin up tryin to work her out and i just want her back and have things the way they were b4 we broke up, any surggestions wud help me out a lot.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006):

heya,

i know exactly how you feel, my gf broke up with me not long ago as well, and i still love her and she will always be in my heart.

You are a great guy, and i can tell that you care for her alot, not wanting to annoy her and being selfish.

The only thing i want you to think about is, even if you guys do end up getting back together do you think it will be the same as it use to be?

For me, i loved my ex very much and as much as i want her back, i know that things will not be the same anymore if she ever does get back with me. As much as i want her back, truth is our relationship would never be as good as it once were and that things will be alot different.

It is up to you though, you can tell her you still love her and that you want her back, but you think about it, would things still be the same as it once where if you guys will getback together?

i wish you all the luck in getting back with her though, hope you guys will someday be happy together again.

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