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writes: I split up with my boyfriend 2 months ago, we had been living together for 6 years. In that time he was unfaithful twice, both times I forgave him. Since he finished with me we still keep in touch. He says he wants to just be friends but still speaks to me in a sexual way. What should I do? I value anyones honest advice. I still care very much for him and find it hard to just be friends.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 well personally i think he thinks his gods gift to woman and since his cheated twice he learns to speak to certain girls in a sexuall manner and he knows you still want him so his speaking to you that way as a tease! but i would advice next time he speaks to you in any kind of sexuall way reply please dont speak to me in that way spaek to me as a friend! or you can reply with sarcastic comments like e.g he says you know you want me you reply ha ha na tar! id rather not go there again. it may be hard to say but hell be shocked and that look on his face if you do say it hell be gobbed smacked.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Personally, I just thinks he wants his cake and eat it too. He can date anyone he wants and still have you too. I know you love him but have some self-respect. Tell him it is or it isn't. If he can't just be friends than maybe you shouldn't speak at all. You need time to heal anyway. I mean he has cheated on you twice. The best thing he did was to let you go, granted it was for his own selfish reasons he did you a favor. Stand your ground and get the space you need to move on. If you find it hard to be friends you should just be without him altogether for your own sake. Good Luck.
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