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We are very much in love but I hurt all the time!

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Question - (23 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am 30 yrs. old and recently divorced with 2 wonderful kids. I am also bisexual. When I was 19, I began a 2 1/2 yr. relationship with my first girlfriend and she cheated on me a couple of times. Once we ended it was when I very hastily got married. Even after I was married I talked to her occasionally via email, but then we lost touch because I moved away. Shortly before my divorce, she begged me to move back and be with her, so I packed up and did just that. She promised me things would be different. I was so head over heels deeply in love with her. She cheated on me again, left me without telling me why and moved to another state with "her." Anyway, 1 yr. later, she has contacted me again and we got together only as friends, but then I have never lost those feelings for her, and she says the same. We are very much in love, but she is in a committed relationship and I just don't know what to do.....all I do is think about her....what should I do? I hurt all the time!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008):

She is trouble with a capital T. Don't ever give up a loving relationship again or risk the chance of being hurt by getting back with her. She dosen't love you, to me she sounds like one of those people who can't really fall in love

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