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We are living together but we are not together

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Question - (21 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

hi

recently me and my partener of 18 months and which i have a 10 month old child too have gone on a break.

the reason behind this i dont know but we have a counciling session tomorrow to try and help our relationship be rebuilt, however.

after the birth of our son, she was diagnosed with PND and was on meds for it which she stopped sudenly, since then she has been a mess, saying she hates me and our son and how he has ruined everything, that we would be fine without him and our relationship with one another would be better.

one min she would be fine and then she will be really snappy, seemingly for no reason.

i dont understand whats up, but i do relise she needs help, i personaly think she is suffering from bipolar.

but i dont know what to do, we are still living together although we are not "together". i want to be there for her but im finding it emotionaly difficult.

i belive she still cares for me and i think she knows she has a problem, how do i go about sugesting she gets help without upsetting her

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010):

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the problem is, that she wont take them again beacuse they make her feel like a "drone" . i think im at a loss tbh

its better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved ata ll, ey?

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2010):

It is good that you are trying to get things back on track, but the one thing that sticks out for me is that you said she suddenly stopped taking her medicines for PND and has been a mess after that.

It sounds like she was not ready to come off them and needs to start taking them again as she is not over it yet.

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