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We are in a long distance relationship...and are thinking of moving together but are scared.

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Question - (2 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I met this guy over the internet like 6 years ago we have met 3 times (he have met my family and I have met his). We live like 4,000 miles apart.

I love him and I know he loves me too but we are not too sure about it.

This time I don't have this over flowing rush of love that I have felt in other relationships. And he tells me he haven't fallen in love ever, and he know that letting me go will be very stupid.

I even asked him how much he loves me and he answered that he loves me like 90%. (very honest answer) and I feel the same ! ! !

Now we were thinking of moving together but still haven't decided where, because We are both scared that finally after spending time together we will find out that it was a mistake.

So is love and relationships like playing the lottery?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007):

you love him but cant be inlove with him after only meeting 3times, yes you talk alot but believe me theres a difference when you spend 24hours totgether.

your probably best going on holiday together first and spending time together. good luck.

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A female reader, josien Uganda +, writes (2 December 2007):

ithink love is an advanture . all that time you have spent together can help you tell if you can move in together or not. you will never be sure till you try it out

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A male reader, auvi Bangladesh +, writes (2 December 2007):

well, such risks are involved in anything you do in love ... if you dont try, u may never know what happens

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