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We are best friends.. How do I find out if he wants to take this to the next level?

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Question - (29 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2007)
A female Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, i've known my best guy friend for practically 3 years. He's sort of like a player, always needs a girl around him. In fact, he never had a girl best friend all his like...and i'm his first ever girl best friend. We can talk about anything..but lately i realised that I have feelings for him.I can't stop thinking about him and i'll be jealous if he's with another girl.He told me once that he cares about me, but i don't know about his feelings towards me now. How can I know about his feelings for me? What's the next step I should take?

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A female reader, xkimx United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2007):

xkimx agony aunti had exactly the same problem , i told him on my own what i felt and it turned out he liked me still but fought i didnt like him coz i didnt say nething and just wanted to be mates, i went to kiss him and kissed me back we made out and we r still together nw , he is ur bst mate he will listen to u and tell you no matter what he fells

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A female reader, Here123 United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2007):

be careful here,if you take the wrong step, it could be awkward and you could end up losing your best friend. Unless you're really sure he likes you, don't go for it. Wait a bit longer, wait for him to make a move, give him hints that you like him or ask him jokingly if he likes u. be brave but careful..

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