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Was this meaningless or is J trying to get me to notice her in some way?

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Question - (4 December 2016) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 December 2016)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have a friend who lives abroad and we talk a lot on Facebook.

I went over there to visit her and met her friend who didn't speak much English (codename J). We were all out together and had a good time, but the language barrier could be an issue.

I spoke to my friend on Facebook and she told me they were partying. She said 'J says hi' and sent me a picture of J smiling and typed a big love heart after.

Was this meaningless or is J trying to get me to notice her in some way? It has happened a couple of times. She will 'appear' when I'm talking to my friend.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 December 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntYip she probably has a crush on you. But nothing will come from it. You cannot really communicate and you live to far apart.

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A male reader, Roboaxe United States +, writes (5 December 2016):

Roboaxe agony auntIt's a little pointless to pursue considering that she lives abroad and you don't speak the same language.

That being said, just be sure to smile and be nice to her when you're there, she may be up for some fun.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (4 December 2016):

Honeypie agony auntEh, she might have a little crush on you or think you are cute or hot or whatnot, but like Denizen pointed out... WHAT is the point? You two can barely talk to each other let alone see each other in person.

I wouldn't read any more into it than that.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2016):

N91 agony auntDenizen is spot on. What are you expecting to come from this?

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2016):

Denizen agony auntWhere is this going to go? Is there any point in pursuing this? Can you see either her or you changing countries? What is the best that can come out of this? I think you may be flattered by the attention but seriously, does this have any future?

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