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hodynohandle
writes:k, well i'm 17 and i've had some serious depression issues. about a year ago towards the end of sophmore year i had my first serious relationship. I had never kissed a girl, i was completely unexperienced in everything. she was as experienced as she could get without having sex. we went out for only a few weeks, because at the end of it i made a mistake. i was walking her home, and i must have threw some signal at her cuz she kissed me, more of a makeout starter than a kiss. well... i wasnt ready for it so i didnt really respond that much. afterwords when i got home i wrote a huge email to her. i kept saying "Sorry" and basically said i was pathetic and she deserved better. i didn't actually mean to send it, but i did. at school the next day she broke up with me. my question is in your honest opinions do you think the break up was my doing? cuz my freinds say its not and i need an outside opinion. i know its a long ways ago but i just found this site and its the begining of my troubles thanks
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reader, hodynohandle +, writes (17 July 2008):
hodynohandle is verified as being by the original poster of the question well shes never wanted to talk about it but now shes saying she longs for me or watever so its kinda confusing lol
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reader, BendychickP  + ♥, writes (17 July 2008):
 Well, the rejection of the kiss was definetely apart of it. This girl probably felt extremely embarrased. She probably took the e-mail the wrong way and thought you were trying to break up with her. This break-up was, in my opinion, no ones fault. There were a lot of mixed opions and many things said probably got lost in translation. Don't blame yourself for this, it wasn't your fault. Good luck in future relationships.
Bendy xx
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