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anonymous
writes:My female friend sugguested that I masturbated then openly admitted she does it. Was she hinting that she wants me or am I misreading the situation?Basically I was saying I was having trouble sleeping and she was like why don't you go masturbate. Reply to this Question
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (29 September 2016):
 I agree with Aunt Honesty. This girl is probably just open about herself and had no issues with suggesting it to you as for some people it is absolutely perfectly normal in every way - including talking about it. I wouldn't read too much into it. I think she migh have made a comment more towards helping your out herself if she was interested, but you never know!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 September 2016):
 I doubt that is what she was hinting at, my guess is it helps her sleep so she was open enough to say to you to try it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2016): She is either into you in a sexual way, or she is comfortable enough to bring it up because you are totally friend-zoned.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (28 September 2016):
 I don't think she is hinting anything, she is just giving you practical advice.
Although I can understand how you may have read a subtext in what she said, because normally people do not talk about their masturbation habits unless they are really, really close to the person. Then again, maybe you are prohecting on her a bit of your own hang-ups. " She openly admitted she does it ": well, duh. Everybody does it, masturbation is healthy and normal ( unless it becomes compulsive, of course ).So, while maybe as for me I would not bring this personal subject up, ( but I am not from your generation )- surely it's not a compromising
" admission ". It's like "admitting openly " that you drink water.
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reader, N91 +, writes (28 September 2016):
 I don't think that's hinting that she wants you. I think she's giving you some advice to help you sleep as some people feel very tired after they ejaculate.
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