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writes:I need advice. I moved in with my boyfriend about 3 months ago. And we have been fighting a lot. We are always arguing and sometimes his sex drive is too low. he is always grumpy and yells at me for almost anything. I know he loves me but I'm getting tired of all the fights. Sometimes I think it was a mistake moving in with him. He told me that maybe I should move back to my house but not break up. But if I do move out I know our relationship will end, everything is going to change. But maybe it can help. I just don't know what to do. Maybe we were too young to move in. We are both 20 yrs old.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Living with someone is one of those things that sounds terrific in theory but put it into practice and it suddenly becomes a nightmare of adjustments. This doesn't happen overnight. You're learning to live with each other. It's a new ball game, sweetie. You have to learn to work together and find your "rhythm" and your new patterns as a co-habitants. Give it a little time. 3 months is nothing in the scheme of things. If you still can't make it work after a year, then go. It's the adjustment period right now. Just give it some time for the dust to settle. Be patient with each other. Be nice, because nice matters.
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