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writes:Three months ago I separated from my wife of four years and moved into a flat on my own.About six weeks after we split, a former friend of my ex wife's, who has been a friend of mine and rock climbing partner for about two years, confessed her feelings for me. My ex wife ended her friendship with her as she felt she had behaved inappropriately with me on several occasions, although I thought she was overreacting. We began a relationship while she was still living with her boyfriend of nearly 15 years, who unfortunately was also a good friend of mine. However, she came clean with him a few weeks later and they have now separated and she has moved in with me.A week after she moved in she had to return to her home country for a month with her ex boyfriend as the trip home had been planned for months and neither wanted to change their plans. I know that he is very upset with her about the situation as she has cheated on him many times in the past and they have broken up and gotten back together many times too.My question is, do you think it was too soon for us to move in together? Is it going to put a strain on the relationship? She says she hasn't felt like this about anyone since she first met her former partner. I also feel like I am in love with her and would like to make it work.
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