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Was it just a fold in his jeans or something else?

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Question - (9 July 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok this has been buggin me for a frickin long time!It was winter and at free period in school we had to go out on the football feild(Normal free time) and I was sitting on the blechers(Good old concret cbleachers from my school x.x). Well my best friend(ever since second grade) walked over and sat next to me and wrapped his jacket around both of us(It was snowy and I had on short sleeves..). I cuddled up next to him and we started talking.Anyway we were cracking pervy jokes (The teacher had bent over and the groundkeeper guy trippd and took her down..Lolz that was a riot) Anyway I don't know it his jeans folded or what it was (Well I know some names but eww..) He quickly pulled the half off the jacket off me and jumped down the bleachers and yelled "I gotta go to the bathroom!"

What was that?

Was it just a fold?

Was it other things?

If it was do you think it was because of the teach and grounds keeper?(Ewwwwwww!!!!!!!!) or me?

I am just confuzzled because I know he has liked me since 2nd grade.(He admitted it..hehehehehe)

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A female reader, helpme:] United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2010):

If he quickly shouts hat he has to go the the bathroom then yeah i think it's probably the other thing (I agree EWWWWW)and also it depends wether you teacher is 'fit' (aka skinny and long hair and quite young)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010):

awwww....thats wonderful! keep us posted. dont be too pushy, but do let him know that you like him. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010):

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I called him and gladly he has just got of vacation and said "I missed ya bud.." "Really?" -pause and stammering- "I-i mean its really boring with out you here.."

hehe that made me happy...We are going to hang out tomorrow and Ill talk about how he really feels for me and how I feel bout him :D you peeps are alot of help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

i definitey wouldnt ask either...puzzlersolver is completely on the mark i think...ask about his feelings toward you...but not about his erection. that would humiliate him. good luck and keep us posted. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

I'm guessing you're curious about a bigger question than that, such as, "Does he like me as more than just a friend?" He most likely pitched a tent unintentionally, yes, but that won't answer what you seem to be pondering, which is if he REALLY likes you. Whether he had a hard on or not wouldn't be so big on your mind if you weren't wondering how much he really likes you.. I can see that he has great feelings for you, even if he doesn't ever admit it, out of fear of ruining your good friendship. I would suggest telling him face to face that you'd like to know the answer to that, and for him to be completely honest. Firstly, it would be alot more mature and respectful, the close friends you are, to ask him that instead of "did you have an erection for me on so and so day". Also, you'll feel alot better knowing his deepest feelings for you, which I feel you indirectly would like to know. So far, you seem to have great respect for each other, so I wouldn't ruin it now, and maybe you can build something more on what feelings he may really have for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

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I finally found his number (Lost it awhile back) and Ima just hang and if something like that evr comes up again I'll....try and confront or talk to him.... x.x ..

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A male reader, blackmeister United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2010):

Yeah, it's most likely an erection, but it isn't abnormal. Usually around his age, the male body can become very sensitive to even the slightest sexual reference, and is very hard to control. Even when the boy is asleep, the penis sometimes seems to have a mind of its own.

Indeed, it can be embarrasing; I remember in the past having to literally fight against myself just to keep it down when talking to a beautiful girl. The fact that he has known you for a very long time and is attracted to you puts a really big strain on him.

Saying that, try not to make him feel too ashamed, for instance if he runs off again certainly don't crack jokes about it. He doesn't need to feel dirty and sick. Your his friend, remember; he looks up to you a trusts you, so be mature about it. I'll be surprised if he actually explains to you himself why he keeps running off in embarrasment, since most boys prefer to keep such things personal. Definantly don't take this as an advantage, such as seducing him or something. With the hormones raging, the teenage male can become very desperate when it comes to sex, and he's more likely to think with his penis and not his brain if you lead him on. Thrust is a very important thing in friendship, and you don't want him to resent you because your taking advantage of him.

So to some up, he's most likely got an erection because of you. So don't be confused about it; it's pretty normal.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

well that changes things a lot. its what happens when a boy that age gets close to a girl your age. it can be very embarrassing to them becaue they cant really control it. its a sign that they find you attractive... :) mal

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

this had to have been at least 4 years ago....and can you really be this naive. you know what it was...and by now if he hasnt made a move he probably isnt going to. google erection. maybe that will help. mal

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

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And I dunno why it put 22-25 we are both 16...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

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My veiw isn't eww its just I have never seen him in anyother way than my bestie..Oh to other person he had used the bathroom before he went onto the football feild he always does..I had to wait on him before we left..And I didn't talk to him because he is the type to get emberrassed easy and he always flees when you confront him about anything..In health when he 'learned' about sex he was hiding in his hood blushing red..I was sitting next to him soo he know how emberrassed he gets..

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A female reader, dayday65 United States +, writes (9 July 2010):

I think its becuz he likes you.

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