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Was I wrong for getting a lawyer? His custody demands and visitation nonsense are a problem!

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Question - (12 October 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, *odchild writes:

Going through an divorce, and its killing me. the problem is we cant agree on visitation. He calls at the last minute or he dont show or call. If I agree, he doesn't wasnt to tell me where my daughter will be. Im eight months ptegnant. He is not tne father it is causing me to much stress and grief. So I got a lawyer, he wants six month custody.was I wrong for getting a lawyer.

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A female reader, Godchild United States +, writes (13 October 2011):

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Well he would find out tomorrow, he should get the papers in the mail. I just cant deal with the argueing and inconsistancy of when he want to see his daughter. I feel like he trying to make my life miserable.

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (13 October 2011):

RedAthena agony auntNo, you need to secure an agreement for the sake of your child. You also need to secure financial obligations.

If you can not come to an agreement with your ex for a fair settlement and arrangement, let your lawyer fight it out for you.

Do some research online for family law in your state. You might also find some divorce support groups that will help with emotional advice and support.

Good luck!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (12 October 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou were NOT wrong. getting a lawyer to protect you and the child is the best thing you can do.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (12 October 2011):

person12345 agony auntYou're right to get a lawyer. Custody battles can become nasty and difficult and you want a lawyer present to make sure everything's fair.

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