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Was he looking for a booty call?

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Question - (18 April 2017) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2017)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I went to a bar and met this super cute but maybe young ish guy. We spoke for a long time one on one, he was kinda flirty and kept rubbing his arms by mine ( it was a packed out bar), he told me he had a flight next day in the morning. After 40s mins I gave him a peck on the lips, he didn’t seem repulsed or into it. To double check I said “sorry I didn’t mean to make you feel uncomfortable by kissing you”, his response was telling, “no, um…you just did what u wanted to do”, he went and got his coat and soon had to go. I asked him before he left if he actually wanted to stay in touch, again lukewarm “sure, why not”, not exactly insanely into me. I figured maybe I had prematurely made a move, or he simply wasn’t into me, but was proud that I had tried and decided to chalk it up to experience. A week later at 2 am in the morning on a Friday I got a message out of the blue saying “hey”, I was at a party so didn’t really know what to say, the next morning I continued the discussion, and it all culminated in him saying he’d like to get a drink, he seemed keen :“Cool well let me know when is good for you”. I suggested “Ok how about this evening around 7pm we get a beer?”, he never responded but read message. How am I supposed to read this. Was he looking for a booty call? Or simply not that keen? I feel confused by his erratic behavior.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (20 April 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntYeah he did not contact you in two weeks and then at 2am he sent you a random message. Off course he wanted a bootycall. This man is not interested at all am afraid.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2017):

I'd leave it, its irrelevant really isn't it. He messaged you when drunk, two in the morning- who does that? When you've met once at a bar? Drunk and looking for a bit of attention.

The stuff the next day is politeness - the let me know when your free doesn't mean do it in his case... let it go, it's nothing.

Expect him to contact you with a hey again when drunk in the middle of the night... he's not serious.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2017):

Just don't waste your time he's playing games to get you hooked so he can get you to the point where your begging to see him..(he wants sex) he's a game player

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