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Was he attracted to me or am I wrong?

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Question - (8 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid readers well yesterday my friend and i went out yesterday evening we went for a wander down by a harbour we had a chat about this and that.

anyways she's been texting a boy shes met up with before and she was texting him and told him to come down to where we were.

so we met him at a bar and had a chat with him but what i found was i was talking and he seemed to be paying more attention to me.

i'm not the sort of person to blow my own horn and when he talked he was constantly making eye contact with me and laughing at things i said.

anyways i thought nothing of it so we all went for a walk around the harbour again but he didn't walk next to my friend he came and walked next to me and stuff my friend hardly spoke to him so i was making conversation with them both to get them talking.

anyways we stopped for a bit to look over the harbour he was winding me up and said he loves winding me up because i'm easy to wind up and i turned away looking across the harbour and he poke my bow in my hair i was like um ook.

but anyways we walked back and again he walked next to me so i changed so my friend would be next to him then he walked behind and came back by me.

everytime we talked he just gave me constant eye contact and he hardly said two words to my friend he looked at her now and again but he kept looking at me and stuff and thought i was really funny.

now i'm not good at these things.

but do you think he was attracted to me?

i mean i was just being myself and i'd never do anything with him as i know my friend likes him but i got the feeling he may have been attracted to me...

was i right or am i wrong?

Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009):

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bit more of an update she told me today that he's told her he just wants to be friends.

i'm hoping this is nothing to do with me....

right...........

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

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yeah i think so.

but i don't like him like.....

that's what i mean yesterday i was just there because it was me and her and she asked him to come down

and i wouldn't do anything because i know she likes him.

tht's not how i roll tbh

i don't do that to friends my friends are my life.

i just got that impression when we met up like.

i didn;t do anything just was myself.

but my friend hardly said anything and he hardly talked to her did now and again.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

what about your friend. does she like him too? yep he seems interested though.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009):

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even though when i said i was looking for a job at his place he said oh well good job there isn't anything available.

not in a nasty way messing about like.

and when i said i lost his number as i had it a while ago my friend wanted me to find out stuff for her from him he said oh well not really a shame but smiling as he did it an again not being nasty.

that still means he likes me?

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A male reader, Kolinsky United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2009):

If I had a nickle for every time that happened.

But, yeah, I'd say he fell for you.

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