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writes:I like someone who is three years older than me, were are good freinds and he moves to University next June/May. I don't want my confession to ruin our freindship, I really like him and think I could have something special with him, but I don't know what to do, helppp!!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 December 2016):
 I agree with the others, when you are older a couple of years age gap is no big deal, but at your age it means he is on a whole different level to you. He is an adult now going to Uni but you are still a teenager attending school, The best thing for both off you would be if you just remained friends.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (2 December 2016):
 I think, considering he is going to be leaving in a few months for University, and considering you are still under the age of consent, and considering you are good friends I think you need to let this crush be what it is for now, a crush ... and let the person in question concentrate on University and all that entails. In a few years time the age gap wont be quite so bad, and if you still feel the same, and if he isn't in a relationship and still comes back to his home town where you remain good friends, that will be the time for the confession.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (2 December 2016):
 He's about to be an adult, which sadly means he's too old for you and would get in a lot of trouble if he dated you.
Stick to guys your own age or only a year older. If you feel they're too immature, you know why you like this guy, but he is too old for you.
OP, I know you have a big crush on him, but he'll want more from a relationship than you should give at your age. Please let it go and wait until you find someone your own age that you have a crush on.
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